The 4 Best Dating Apps We Tested in 2026

We used each service for three weeks, filed a report on every one to see how it was handled, and read the privacy policy end to end. Safety and the free tier mattered more to the ranking than the matching did.

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Verity

Every account checked before it goes live

Editor's Choice Best choice

Our top pick

9.4/10 Excellent 2,841 reviews

The only service here that verifies identity on every account before the profile is visible. That one policy changes the experience more than any feature.

Pros

  • Identity verified on every account, without exception
  • Reports answered by a person, with an outcome
  • Voice and video calling before sharing a number
  • Clear, readable privacy policy

Cons

  • Verification takes about a day before you can start
  • Smaller pool than the mainstream services
  • No desktop client

Features

  • VERIFIED BEFORE VISIBLE: A government ID and a live selfie are checked against the profile photos before anyone else can see the account.
  • REPORTING THAT GOES SOMEWHERE: Reports are reviewed by a person within 24 hours, and the outcome is sent back to whoever filed it.
  • NO PHONE NUMBER NEEDED: In-app calling means you can talk before deciding to share a number.
  • LOCATION SHOWN AS A CITY: Never a distance in metres, which is the detail that most often makes someone findable.
Price
£14.99/mo
Free plan
Yes — browsing and five messages a day
Verification
ID and selfie, mandatory
Free tier
Browse and five messages a day
Location shown as
City only
Platforms
iOS, Android
Matching
8.6
Safety
9.8
Ease of use
9
Privacy
9.6
Free tier
8.9
Support
9.4
Value
8.8
Overall
9.4
More about Verity
Verity checks a government ID and a live selfie against the profile photographs before an account can be seen by anyone. It takes about a day, which costs them sign-ups and is exactly why it works: we found no unverified accounts in three weeks of use. Matching itself is unremarkable — a straightforward set of filters and a daily shortlist — but you are choosing between real people, and on a dating service that is most of the job.
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Prices checked 30 July 2026

  1. Cadence

    One introduction a day, conversation first

    Best Value Value for money
    9/10 Excellent 1,663 reviews

    One match a day and photographs stay blurred until you have exchanged a few messages. Slow by design, and the free tier is genuinely usable.

    Features

    • ONE AT A TIME: A single introduction each day, which removes the swiping loop entirely.
    • PHOTOS COME LATER: Pictures unblur after a few messages, so the first impression is what someone wrote.
    • THE FREE TIER IS USABLE: One introduction a day and unlimited replies, with no cap on conversation length.
    • QUIET HOURS: Notifications can be switched off on a schedule rather than one at a time.
    Price
    £9.99/mo
    Free plan
    Yes — one introduction a day, unlimited replies
    Verification
    Optional selfie check
    Free tier
    One introduction a day, unlimited replies
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    Prices checked 30 July 2026

  2. Kindred

    Long profiles for people who read them

    8.5/10 Very good 4,102 reviews

    The most thorough profiles here, and the largest paying user base. The free tier is a shop window rather than a usable service.

    Features

    • PROFILES WORTH READING: Written prompts and stated values, weighted more heavily than photographs.
    • LARGEST PAYING BASE: The biggest pool here of people who have actually subscribed.
    • MATCH EXPLANATIONS: Each suggestion says which answers it matched on.
    • DESKTOP CLIENT: A full browser version, rare in this category.
    Price
    £19.99/mo
    Free plan
    Limited — browsing only, no messaging
    Verification
    Optional, prompted after sign-up
    Free tier
    Browsing only
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    Prices checked 30 July 2026

  3. Nearby

    Distance-first, for meeting people locally

    7.9/10 Good 7,756 reviews

    The largest user base and the fastest to get started with. Also the weakest on safety, which is the reason it is not higher.

    Features

    • THE LARGEST POOL: More active profiles than the other three combined in most cities.
    • TWO-MINUTE SIGN-UP: Photograph, age, a line of text and you are browsing.
    • MESSAGING ON THE FREE TIER: Capped matches per day, but conversations are not limited.
    • CHECK THE PRIVACY SETTINGS FIRST: Precise distance is on by default and worth turning off.
    Price
    £12.99/mo
    Free plan
    Yes — limited matches a day, messaging included
    Verification
    Optional, uncommon in practice
    Free tier
    Limited matches a day, messaging included
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    Prices checked 30 July 2026